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September 13, 2005, 10:46 am PDT
Tray I really like having someone to talk to
Quote From: tray00I take it you are not involved in a relationship at this time? I was lucky to find someone, I have been with him for 14 yrs. Since my baby was 1 1/2 yrs old. My son never called this guy dad until he was 6 (when we got married) That could be the differnce as to why my son didn't ask.
I am not sure what to say? Do you have pictures you could show him? maybe he could call his dad? Ask him why he doesn't come and see him? I know you don't want to break his heart. A couple years ago I got a letter back from my sons new wife she wrote it to both my son and I. I never showed it to my son and I never will. What a bag she is! She told me that they didn't believe he was the father, and that it proves it because I slept around all the time. I jsut about fell off my chair reading that! And how can you write something like that and have a 14 yr old read that about his mom. I do have to say he was my first and I didn't have a clue what I was doing or how to do it! LOL I did not sleep around. If she would of said that to my face I think I would of socked her one! Not that I am a violent person, but she was wrong to say that!
I used to tell my son that his dad lived far away and show him pictures.
I have to get the kids ready for school, and head to the gym so I will be back....TRAY Well, I am separated from my husband. I do show him pictures and tell him all the good things I know about his father. But he is very smart and it is getting really hard to answer some of the questions. He is not crazy he knows that I loved his father very much and I would have never walked out on him. When or if his father desides to speak to me son he is going to have alot of answering to do. Why are men like this? He has no idea what he has missed out on. Well I have to go get my son from school so, I guess I will talk to you later.
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