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December 2, 2005, 7:35 am PST

the only thing that isn't hopeless is the beauty of adults reaching out to me

Quote From: jb7ctx

Sorry it took so long to get back here, I've been having problems with my computer and lost my ISP, so now I have one that works. CPS is very difficult. It is bad that you had to go through all of that. I dont think your husband can get child support from you if you if sign away your rights. BUT, he has to be willing to let you sign them away. If he isnt williing, then I would fight it if you can. Did you check out the site: http://forum.fightcps.com ? Type this site address name on your browswer and it will take you right there. Go to "Investigations" and type your post there and someone will answere you. I am sure there is someone on there who can give you more information about how to deal with these situations. When children are taken away from their natural parents it is a big adjustment to them and they WILL act out because they want to be with their parents. Once false accusations are made on someone and it is reported to CPS you are in for a huge battle and in most cases, it is hard to win. You have to jump through hoops and loops all the time, and you end up losing everything you have to try and fight the system. I would highly reccomend that once you get your case closed with CPS/DHR that you get your name "expunged" off the list of registry. This site will also tell you how you can go about doing that too. I hope things are better for you. I am sorry you are getting a divorce because of this. Keep in touch and let me know how things are going for you. jb7ctx
 I cannot tell you how embarrassed I am that I didn't know you had posted such loving advice. I really want to thank you..

This is incredibly hopeless. The older girl went into a psych hospital again in October for 15 days, and my estranged spouse accidentally let it slip on the 12th day that he was on his way to visit her. He doesn't believe he's obligated to even keep me informed....

If you get a moment, please send me some good energy during the holiday season.
       
 


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