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November 10, 2006, 10:11 am PST
Cheated On
Quote From: patticJust a thought...could the reason he doesn't want to "get help", or be intimate be because he is afraid he has contracted an STD while with the other women? My EX-husband was military and stationed in Korea for a year. When he came back I ended up with an STD, and didn't know it for a very long time. Maybe he's afraid to find out, if he's been with several women. Even so, I don't think I could stay with him . Once you lose the trust in a person, the relationship is NEVER the same, and by him not wanting to move forward, get help and "be a husband" to you, it's CLEAR what he wants. He wants his cake and wants to eat it too. You deserve better. We are intimate. I've been tested for everything and am clean. He says he wants to stay and work on our marriage but I'm having trouble trusting him. Will I ever trust him again. He doesn't think he needs counseling. He just wants to put it all behind him. For me, I'm living with it everyday.
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