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October 5, 2005, 10:30 am PDT
Could it be possible???
Quote From: youngmom23My five year does the same thing I know that there is 2 years differnce but I was with child and she hit my tummy and said Ha Ha I hit baby and had a lot of anger towards me. I just reciently found out that he father has been sexually abusing her and that is why she had so much anger towards me, Is it just towards U. I know that no parent wants to think of this but it happens I never thought that it would happen to my childern becuse no one watches them but family and her father just came into the pitcher a few months ago and she got way worse then what she did. I would just check into it it could just be the age 2 tantrums that everyone talks about, Just thoaught I would metion to u just in case. I have been thinking about what has been said, and have recently been thinking do you possibly think this could be related to FAS. During this pregnancy I did drink on a few occasions, :( regretfully and now worry that these temper flares could be related to FAS. But no these tempers are not directed towards me only, occassionally she does do the same things with her father and older siblings as well, but more towards me. When i think of the times that i did drink during pregnancy i do feel terrible, because i think of how it can affect her in the long run. i did talk to a nurse about my drinking once, but she said that she doesnt believe that my baby will have much troubles because she is very smart and intellegent for her age. She is above average for her learning abilities. But do you think it could affect how she acts out. One of my thoughts were is that she is still learning how to effectivly show her anger in an appropiate manner. Because when it comes to anger, i honestly don't think she has great role models, i am not saying THAT WE HIT OR ANYTHING, but we do not discuss what is bothering us at that exact moment. But if anyone knows about FAS and thinks this may have something to do with it could you please talk to me and tell me how we can manage this especially because we do have another baby on the way and need to deal with how she expresses her anger. thank you for listening.
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