Quote From: darcylovethe last portion of phil today was talking to a couple in which the women wasn't interested in sex. Phil didn't advice this young man to go look at porn. He didn't advice him to seek other women. He instead told them that they needed to work together in solving the issue. He didn't advice this man to live in a sexless marriage.....as a matter of fact he told them he didn't think that would be a good thing. But he also didn't tell this guy that he needed to find the next best thing to satisfy himself with.
The women in this he believed had some internal dialogue that needed to be changed. The women had a dialogue that told her that sex was bad and dirty. She wanted to change that dialogue. Now if a women doesn't want to change that dialogue....I would really question why the marriage continues. But I don't think porn is the answer that so many guys think that it is. It sure wasn't phil's advice!
He instead told them that they needed to work together in solving the issue
Nobody said that viewing porn is the answer. However, if the wife won't give him sex and won't work with him to solve the problem and he likes sex I think it's a hell of a lot better then cheating. He may not necessarily cheat without the porn, but at least he'll be happier.
