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Quote From: jeansup

Ok, so he's been doing this for SIX YEARS? The problem I see here is that he got caught and is trying to get back what he has lost. 38 years or 3 years, cheating is cheating. You are still young enought to take care of yourself and be good to yourself. Do you think you can forgive him? Do you think he is being truly sorry about what has happened and willing to change? Someone told me that you may be able to forgive, but forgiving is almost impossible. That they struggle daily with the memories of the affair. I'm not to that point with what has happened to me, nor do I think I could ever trust him again. Trust is a big issue and important in a relationship. You should take care of yourself and get into thearpy so that you can work on you. Thats where I'm at right now and I dont plan to make any decision untill I have calmed down and am sure what I think. Hang in there! And remember to take care of YOU!