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I completely understand so much of what you are saying.  My husband and I are trying to work it out after him having a 2 yr affair, he came clean with everything (as far as I know) but it is soooo hard to trust anything he says. I also stay home with my kids and I think we put so much faith in our husbands and when you realize that is broken it is devastating. It has been almost a year and I still get images in my head of him with the other women.....  There is nothing wrong with you , this is a horrible situation.  It doesnt help that he wont come completely clean.  I made my husband tell me EVERYTHING..... I even called up "HER"  and made her confess what had happened.  I knew this "THING"....  she worked with him...... I had confronted them before and they BOTH denied nothing was happening. THey were just friends....yeah right!

Only you know if you should stay, dont worry about what friends or family will think.  Do what is right for you and your kids.  If you think he is truly changed, maybe you should try. ....but if he is still lying and just kissing behind ......and not really sincere than maybe you need to go.  I am trying to work it out because I believe my husband is sincere, but will we ever really know? Good luck.