Quote From: freakygirlHi- my daughters are 14 and 15-they have a friend who is starting to hang around-who dresses very revealing,(she is 13) and she is very pretty. if she wears shorts-its always daisy dukes and halter tops-or low-low rise jeans,and skimpy adult blouses-i see my 48 year old husband looking at her a bit too much for comfort-not that he is a pervert-she definatly does not look 13,and she is wearing very revealing clothes.My question is-what can i say to her,so she understands that it isn't okay to wear immodest clothing at my house? I do not allow my kids to dress like that,and never will,but i don't want to alienate this kid either-her mother dresses the same way-and i am overweight-so i am at a loss as to how to approach this-the reason i mention my weight is-as soon as i say -'look-you can't wear revealing stuff to my house" i think they will jump on the 'your just jealous' bandwagon.
Even if there is a grain of truth to that-my kids are honor students ,focused on education,never in trouble at school-the 13 year is the exact opposite-detentions all the time-a boyfriend at 13-but the thing is we live in the country and she is the only other kid for miles.
hi i can understand you completly
i also have a daughter who brought home a friend
and she hardly has clothes on
and also her mom to
and like you im over weight so i didnt say a word
but i never liked when she came over
it was hard to do but when she came to the door
i would tell her my daughter could not come out
this girl would come 3 or more times a day
and i would keep saying the same thing util she stopped
you really should do the same
as i did
your kids will understand why you did it
if you would like to talk my email is paville3@hotmail.com
you sound like a person i would like to chat with
good luck
sherry in pa
