Replies to '06/04 In-Laws’ Dirty Secrets Exposed'

I agree. You might want to read my published diary on "for those that need help"  by corilayn. I know that we all carry some sort of "heavy crap"  My family is no different. My grandma is the only one who knows that my uncle (her son) molested me. You have no idea what the rest of it is like. My cousin is  a product of rape.,,,my aunts'  "father" raped her. If I got into my family history it would blow most people's minds.

WE ARE NOW ADULTS

GET OVER IT AND GET ON WITH IT

GET HELP (professional) if needed

You know right from wrong. If you were wronged and you have a hard time with it....get help

No matter what happended in the past does not give you the right to "harbor" the poor me ~syndrome. Talk to the grocery store clerk, the landlord, the teacher, the retail girl and they'll tell you a horror story of their own. We all have them.... our job as human beings is to transcend them,( which means to get over it.)Not to sound rude. But really how long do you want to hold onto the past and how you were wronged?  Life is short.....choose happiness. JUST BECAUSE YOU CAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi, I have read the messaages of the abused and frightened, scared and scarred people. Please, please I lost my best friend of 20 years due to her alcohol abuse which was due to her extreme childhood and adolesence abuse. She was raped by her step-father, over and over, she was hit and beaten.I met her and we were immediate friends. My life was an exact opposite of hers, however both of our families were families of great means. She died when she was 42 of liver failure. She wanted to die because she could not cope with what happened to her. Please, if this mother-in-law is correct, good. But if she is wrong, she has already tainted that family with a curse that she cannot take away and may be her own virtue cause for her misery for here on. My hope and love are for the existing family. May the truth come to bear.