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November 12, 2006, 1:08 am PST
Life is really too short.....
Quote From: tstuthersMy husband and I separated in 98 during the holidays. We had been married for 15 years at the time. We were a mess, the kids were a mess, life was a mess. My husbands sister invited him to her house on New Years Eve... 2 weeks into our separation. She had a suprise waiting for him. One of her good friends who she thought would be perfect for him. I never felt so betrayed in my entire life!! We went to counseling and worked on our marriage and this summer celebrated our 23rd anniversary. But I can never forgive his sister. She is indifferent, and felt that she had a right to make her brother happy. Let's not talk about the fact that I was her "sister" for so long. To this day, I will be polite at family functions, but I will never trust her and have no respect for her whatsoever. My husband couldn't understand why she would just "throw me away" at the blink of an eye. She tells anyone who will listen that I am unforgiving and over emotional on the subject. As long as she continues with that thought process she will never be embraced by me or my family again. for any kind of hate. Before you know it, you will be of age and she will also and what have been accomplished but the hate. I read somewhere that hate turns years on your mental and physical phyeee. (sp) Let it go, breathe and know that you got your husband back. My aunt, who had been married to her husband for 60 years, told me the other day, that his family never and still don't like her and perdict that their marriage won't last. duhhhhh They are both over the age of 83. Life is tooo short. Enjoy your time and not forget, but forgive in your heart.
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