Quote From: zblakefor any kind of hate. Before you know it, you will be of age and she will also and what have been accomplished but the hate. I read somewhere that hate turns years on your mental and physical phyeee. (sp) Let it go, breathe and know that you got your husband back. My aunt, who had been married to her husband for 60 years, told me the other day, that his family never and still don't like her and perdict that their marriage won't last. duhhhhh They are both over the age of 83. Life is tooo short. Enjoy your time and not forget, but forgive in your heart.
We had been married 37 years when my husbands family who never liked me brought in an old girlfriend while he was visiting for hunting season, a yearly trip, to break us up so he would move there, several states away, and get rid of me all in one swoop. It almost worked. I still don't talk to his family , I don't consider them family. Funny they won't speak to him, except for one sister he talks too. The others feel he betrayed them after all their efforts. What a joke.
I'm sorry, I can't forgive his family in my heart yet, it still causes me great pain at times. We will be leaving on a cruise next month for our 40th anniversay and renewing our vows, with our children.
It will take time and maybe some day I can forgive, but you know that song that says, "I just want to stay mad for awhile" . I don't want you to not forgive because I haven't, I just want to let you know that you are not alone. I learned the hard way just how devious family can be and that probably is what hurts more than anything. I was raised that Family doesn't act like to to each other.
