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November 14, 2006, 11:06 am PST

11/16 Starving for Perfection

Quote From: jaamama

I am a woman that lives in america and everyday i watch the same shows, commercials, movies, look at the same magazines that you do, etc, etc, etc. and I do not have any desire to starve myself to the point where I have to be worried about my health.  Society attempts to persuade and make you conform to certain things everyday.  If you watch a NFL football game, their is about 3 beer commercials on every time-out, are you also an alcoholic? Everybody in this world has got a problem.  In america we will use anything that sells and attempt to make society to conform to it.  Just like sex, violence and drugs...they sell.  We are now finding out that they create more jobs...an alcoholic or anorexic needs a therapist.  If you want to make a difference in america, voting isn't the answer. Talk to your children, other women, men, anybody that you feel is falling into the traps of our today's society.  The cycle needs to be broken before any changes can occur, this will come from the public and what we stand for, not from what any politician can or will do for us.  If you want to make a difference for your children, your grandchildren and so on, the change needs to come from society, not from the health care system.  If you had cancer you wouldn't just take some Advil for the pain, you would treat it with chemotherapy and whatever else you thought would get rid of the disease completely.  If we just changed the health care system in america we would only be treating the pain, not the root cause of the problem.  With that said, the problem would still exist and people would be wanting something else from america cause everyone has a problem.  We need to start being thankful that we have food...that we have the chance to choose whether or not we want to eat or not rather than taking everything to the extreme because many (children) around the world are dying because they don't have the choice.  Put your faith in God, not in today's society when it comes to right and wrong.

Excuse me, but you have the misconception that eating disorders have to do with FOOD!  On the surface it may appear to be that way.

 

TV commercials don't trigger eating disorders, magazine covers don't trigger eating disorders.  It is soooooooooo much deeper than that.  It is a psychological DISEASE.  It is deep-rooted in our psyches and must be treated by professionals, meds and constantly monitored.

 

Being thankful for food and that we live in the wealthiest country in the world has nothing to do with eating disorders. 

 

No, the healthcare system is a MESS.  There are too many people - eating disorders and more - who cannot get the care they need, because we are not "cost effective."  Most hospitals treat the SYMPTOM not the disease.  This is the case with most mental heath cases.  I can't tell you how many times I was stabilized and sent home.  Too many people suffering from mental health diseases are stabilized and sent home.

 

A case in Michigan resulted in change.  The parents of an anorexic / bulimic daughter sought help for their daughter.  She was denied hospital treatment by their insurance company.  She died.  The parents sued the insurance company and won.  The laws were changed and Michigan now recognizes Eating Disorders as a mental health DISEASE. 

 

Vote and you can make a difference.

 

Please understand that you clearly don't understand the gravity of this disease - it is not about the food and being ungrateful for all that we have in our country.  It is so much deeper than that.  It cut's to the very soul of every individual and the struggle back to life is long and hard.

 


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