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November 13, 2006, 7:24 pm PST
Thank you for this post
Quote From: meviperchic I am 47 back when I was 11 my dad left my mom and us 5 kids for his girlfriend because she was pregnant..it has taken me along time to get over that and I have been married to the same man for 24yrs and he has helped learn how to trust people..it has been along road...I was one of the lucky ones it really screwed up acouple of my brothers and 1 sister...but when people have affairs it hurts the whole family..... So often those that cheat think they are not affecting anyone else. Or maybe they realize that they are affecting their spouse, but that their spouse deserves it for some reason. The fact is that these decisions are very far reaching. A couple friend of my wife and I are going through a nasty split. She had a several month affair that he discovered this past summer. Very sad, and it has even affected my wife and I, I can't even imagine what it has done to their two children. The decision she made is very far reaching, much more far reaching than she will ever know.
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