Quote From: chris3202 Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2 and a half years and am completely in love with him. We have had a lot of problems through our relationship and we have managed to get through them. One of the biggest problems was that he has a 2 year old son and cheated on me with the mother of his baby the first couple of months we were dating. I managed to forgive him(don't know how) and we moved on from that. He has helped me with a lot of my problems with my parents and i have helped him with a lot of his problems. But, the last month or so we have both been annoying each other really bad and fighting a lot. He says he still cares about me and doesn't want to break up but he doens't know if he loves me or not. I don't know what to do...so i am just giving him space and just letting him call me. I don't know what to do because i don't want to give up on our relationship. He makes me really happy and i love him alot. Any advise forme out there?
Sometimes space is a good thing, but usually when the arguing has gotten way out of hand. A lot of people use the "needing space" as an excuse to go ahead with another relationship that they have already established on the side prior. I don't know if this is what is happening in your relationship, but I would think in terms of how is a relationship going to get better without communications? Communications is the cornerstone of any relationship, platonic or otherwise, and if you are not communicating, and if you are, "having your space," how can anything be resolved?
I think you need to open your eyes, and you just may find that he is needing more than just space. I hope I am wrong, and I hope this helps, good luck, and keep us posted!
