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September 12, 2005, 11:54 pm PDT
Not answering
Quote From: krisrc85I was just hoping someone could give me insight into a dating/communication problem I'm having. I had been talking to a guy for about 2 weeks before we decided to go on our first date (met online). We went on the date this past Wednesday and everything went really well. We talked the entire time (almost no silence whatsoever) and laughed constantly. I had a lot of fun on the date and he seemed to be really interested in me. At the end of the date, he asked me to call him the next day if I wanted to. I told him I would. I also asked him to call and let me know that he made it home safely. A little while later, he did call and said he was at home. I asked if he really did want me to call him the next day and he told me only if I wanted to. I preceeded to tell him I would, but only if he really wanted me to. He responded by telling me that he did want me to call him. Anyway, the next day I called him a few times and he never did answer. I then called the next day and he didn't answer then either. Why would he ask me to call if he didn't want to talk to me? What's he thinking? Any insight or ideas would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. From what you've said he probably didn't want to hurt your feelings by saying don't call. Call if you want to......he may not want to. You had a good time on your date and he probably did too but you don't really know anything about him and he could have a lot of stuff going on in his life....It's hard to be let down but pick yourself up and get out there! There are more fish in the sea.
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