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November 21, 2006, 10:57 am PST

11/24 Great School Debate

Quote From: winterwarmth

I agree with you.  Our family has been homeschooling for 4 years now, and even in this short experience, I can say with confidence that there indeed are ups and downs to it.  But for me, the ups and downs are situational and not with the idea that I think homeschooling in general won't "work".  For us, it's not really a "method of education", but rather encompasses our whole life.  The education is integrated, and we don't really have a separate and divorced "education life" and "other life".  We embrace all we learn in all facets, and nuture what needs to be nurtured.

I think what many people refer to as "perfect" is the bigger picture, of having complete jurisdiction over your own lives and not having some outside institution dictate to you what you should be, and which influences your child "must have" in order to succeed.  Many people willingly hand over that duty to outside control, and if it's working for them, then I can't judge that it's not.

I actually answered this post to attempt to itemize some of the downsides, and for us I can't really think of any of any significance, except perhaps, sometimes an interesting activity or event will come up and the money won't be there, but even then, that's a personal thing.  Whether or not one has money for something has nothing to do with whether PS or homeschooling "works". We tend to go for most of the public and community events, like free museum days, the library, multicultural festivals, etc etc, as it is.


Thank you very much for a measured and respectful response. Really, thank you.

"The education is integrated, and we don't really have a separate and divorced "education life" and "other life".  We embrace all we learn in all facets, and nature what needs to be nurtured."

Luckily my husband and I have been naturally like that our whole lives. We watch documentaries for fun if we want to watch TV.  When driving down the highway we will notice things like strata layers in mountains. Things like that. Learning, discovering and understanding is the richest most exciting part of live in our home.  Our favorite family activities revolve around learning and seeing new things. Like you said, museums, the zoo, the aviary going to the mountains...anything having to do with nature we love.

The things about home schooling that discourage me are the fact that as an atheist I do not belong to a church, and being in a highly religious area there aren't a lot of activities outside of church or school for kids to make many friends...but I am sure there are many ways to deal with that.

Also, I worry about my personal burn out as a SAHM and having a husband who works 50+ hours a week.

These are the things I worry about myself.

Again, thank you very much for a respectful response...really.
 


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