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July 26, 2005, 3:45 pm PDT
07/26 Extreme Sex Differences
Quote From: young1I have never written a message on a message board so forgive me if I sound silly. I am 41 years old, happily married with two young children. I love my husband very much but I have no desire for sex. I wish so much that we didn't have to have sex. If I thought it wouldn't hurt my marriage I would be thrilled never to have sex again. My husband, sick of being rejected, has stopped asking for it all together. I know this isn't what he wants but he doesn't know what else to do anymore.
I've read Dr. Phil's advice about automatic thoughts and how this problem can be resolved in weeks but I just don't buy it. I don't know of any sexual abuse in my past but I do know that mymother often rejected my father. Can that be where my attitude is coming from?
I'm so sick of this being an issue/problem with my husband and me. Can anyone offer any advice?
Thanks! I would suggest if you are spiritual at all to pray. God can do for you what you can not do for yourself if you will trust and have faith. I could not imagine not giving my husband sex. # 1 Because as I get older and I am 40 I absolutely enjoy sex. If anything there are times that my husband is the one with the headache not me. There is a book by Laura Slessinger Called How to feed and Nurture your husband I reccomend it highly. God Bless
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