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November 22, 2006, 8:03 am PST

11/24 Great School Debate

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The No Child Left Behind may work for some kids but it doesn't work for ALL kids.  If no child is left behind then no child get's ahead either.  My child is turning 5 and will be of age to start public school next Aug.  I have talked with the principal and told her that my son was already working on a 1st/2nd grade level and would probably be working on a 2nd/3rd grade when he is of age to start PS Kindergarten.  She suggested that he go to a private school this year and do K and then in Aug. he would have to repeat K again.  He has already completed a Homeschool K curriculum so she wants him to be in K for 3 years?  This doesn't seem like good advice from a principal.  We are homeschooling him right now but my husband want to consider PS in Aug.  He wants to know if the PS will do anything with son.  I do not believe they will do anything.  I have had a teacher say that they will not and if we had the money place him into a gifted private school.  This is where the schools  doesn't work.  Why should my son work below his academic level just b/c of his age?  I believe all kids should work to their ability not to their age even if their ability is below what is typical for their age.  maybe they just don't learn as fast.  Gifted children are NOT given the chance to work at their level of learning nor at their pace in  PS.  This is the biggest reason for us to homeschool.  My son will be able to move fast in some subjects, slower in others, broad or narrow.  He has already said that he wants to start college in math when he is 10 yrs old.  Why can't he try for the goal?
Actually the private school that my daughter goes to does give the kids opportunities to work at their own levels. They are still givent he same work as the other children but are given more as needed. I think every individual school is different whether it is provite or public and all all homeschooling parents are different as well. We have to allow our children to grow and develop at their own paces and we need to make sure that the system we are putting our child in fits that criteria, I love the privat school my daughter goes to,that is why she is there, I rejected the other private school becasue I didn't like the set up. I wqent with mygut feeling and as parents, we have to follwo those paretning instincts, whatever system we choose has to work for the child, we have options in our country and I think we need to take advantage of those options and count it a provelege and a blessing that we are not controlled by the government as many countries are, we are not robots, we are people with a  brain and we have the right to use our brains even when it comes to our kids.

I say follow your heart and keep your child as the high priority here and he will do fine, unfortuanely we do have parents in our country who don't seem to give a hoot when it comes to their children' education but overall, I think most parents do, and thankfully, we live ina  wonderful country who sees that and allows us parents to take control of our own life issues/children's needs.
 


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