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November 22, 2006, 10:10 am PST

Steven can turn it around!

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What a beautiful spirit Steven has.  As a mother of two teenage boys, I had such an urge to give him a hug and encourage him to follow his dream of being a naval officer.  I wish him only happiness from this day forward.  Let him prove to his mother what an awesome man he can be.  Best of luck, Steven.
Ditto to the post above.  Also some other thoughts...  Where is the love mom?  I can understand being pushed to the end -but how and why do you let it get to that point? Only the mom knows when things changed, and why.  He wasn't always this way.  It was learned and it worked for him.  I think the ladies need to do some self-examination on how they behave, react, and relate to Steven - now and more importantly - in the past.  I don't see how a loving home can in turn produce this situation - something was broke long ago and never fixed - he is lashing out. He isn't even acknowledging the real reason because it'll show his greatest weakness - he needs love!  It was so apparent from the way he spoke. I'd like to ask the mom how often she tells/told him she really loves him, that she believes in him, that he will always be the center of her life? I can't imagine anyone who has a great love for their child wishing that they were dead.  What happened to unconditional love?!  I have hope that once he resolves the hurt he can and will be a better man.  The mom and daughter were thinking they needed to get him out of their life -  I think he may need to get THEM out of his life. Maybe it's been 2 against 1 for too long?   <font="#80080">
 

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November 22, 2006, 1:05 pm PST

I Pray Everyday

Quote From: lsangeloty

What a beautiful spirit Steven has.  As a mother of two teenage boys, I had such an urge to give him a hug and encourage him to follow his dream of being a naval officer.  I wish him only happiness from this day forward.  Let him prove to his mother what an awesome man he can be.  Best of luck, Steven.
I pray everyday that he proves me wrong!  Thank you for your thoughts.
 


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