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September 18, 2005, 4:16 pm PDT
Update on my problem
Quote From: tray00I guess that depends on how old you are? At least it would to me as a parent. How old is your boyfriend as well?
Depending on how old you both are I would talk to them, tell them how you feel and and how you feel about it, ie: you don't want a baby, you use birth control, you were both tested for std's, ect. IF you havent' broken the promise tell them that, but tell them that you want thier acceptance. Again this all depends on how old you are. If you break up with this person do they realize the next person could be someone who is not as mature and responsble. someone with an std?
I also think you know their is plenty of things you can do other then having sex. I also think your erge to have sex will go away after a while.
Keep us informed! I am 15 and my boyfriend is 18, my parents have no issue with the age gap because they have a five year age difference. I will graduate next year (my birthday is in December so I started school at age 4). I know most people don't think that I would have been emotionally stable or mature to have made this decision, but I most certainly am. My relationship with my boyfriend is stronger and more serious than other people our age as we were best friends before we became a couple and went through some very rough and emotionally trying times together. I am not some average sexually active teenager, I am very careful, and informed about birth control methods, we use condoms and I am on birth control as a back up plan. I know what many people will think when they see his age, but he isn't just some guy who wants to have sex, we made the decision together and we didn't pressure eachother either. Unfortunately, we did break the promise after talking it over and doing a lot of thinking about the consequences that it would have, yet again I wasn't pressured, and i only regret the fact that I lied to my parents.
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