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March 9, 2006, 11:47 pm PST
wow
Quote From: waves_1518I unfortunately am just like the woman on the show today who would cry during sex. To me sex has always been about my partner's power over me when I am in a vulnerable position. I dread sex constantly and try to avoid it. I even avoid being intimate in other ways because of the fear that sex will be what is expected next. It isn't fair to him and he often complains. I know it makes him feel horrible when I turn him down but I am scared out of my mind. Any advice that might help? i am no pro for certain but from the little i do know about psycology you might have some very deep seeded issues that should be worked out with a very good therapist. Sex is NOT about controll or domination or any such things. Sex is or at least should be a enjoyable show of affection between 2 loveing consenting people. If to you it is all about controll or being donminated and surpressed and you can not shake that thought you need to seek help so that someone can show you the light on what sex is really about and you can learn to enjoy it.
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