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July 26, 2005, 2:45 pm PDT
Hisjewel
Quote From: hisjewelawww thank you!!! I don't feel i am way ahead of the game but thanks!!!
yep i can read all the books i want but untili really really make things change they won't.... i mean i can sit there and wait for water to boil but unless i turn the nob to make it happen it will never happen and if i just hardly turn the tnob it will just barily happen and it will take a long time.... well i think i once turned it on really low but i feel like i turned it off Humor is a way of coping that can keep you in the game of life. Taking life too serious will beat you down you have to make some fun of the nonsense. You are right about your attitude not books to make things change. Books can help us get places by giving us some ideas and angles to look at where we are going and our way of thinking but we can accept the idea or flush down the toilet. Most of the time I think and this is what I'm guilty of looking for someone or something that agrees with my way of thinking and what does Dr. Phil say about that? How's hat working for you! And if it was you would be happy not still miserable so if you want to get happy you've got to change your way of thinking! So this is what people spend many hours in counseling to get to the conclusion until they change their way of thinking they will be in many more years of counseling. I finally had to trash most of my way of thinking and come up with some new ideas of seeing life. I still find myself falling back into that stuff I like to believe in until I hit a brick wall and go oops wrong path! So don't feel bad when you fall into that rut just be a WOMAN and change irections not like a man and keep trveling ecause they hate to be wrong! Sorry menfolks!haha
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