Quote From: wondergirl28Once a dog always a dog. I was with one on and off for 12 years. The reason we always broke up was because he could not be faithful. He will always accept numbers from girls. Talk to girls at his job. This one girl was always there wait for us to break up so she can have him. Being a man he always allowed her to come in the middle of our relationship. Now that's old news, he's married now, but still hasn't change. When he's not around his wife he calls me, still want to sleep with me,but I know not to do that. He's not worth that. So like I said a dog will always be a dog.
Thank goodness you got away from his cheating ways. Most men that cheat on women are the ones that really have issues with women. Instead of facing the real issues about why they use women they would rather escape the pain of confronting their bad behavior by using women for their own gratification.
Although I do disagree with you that always a dog will always be a dog, if a man really wants help and seeks it he will find it. We can't change our own behavior permanently. The only person who can change us permanently is Jesus Christ.
The sad part is that this dog you speak of will eventually be found out and he will lose everything and maybe that is when he will wake up and see how much damage he has caused to so many people. Our Lord says in His word, "make no mistake your sin will find you out" and that is exactly what is going to happen to that dog you speak of. God uses all kinds of circumstances to bring the truth to the light.
I was in a similar situation as you, (many years ago) I had been dating this man who flirted with every woman he came in contact, his excuse... he just loved women. Well I found out how much he loved women, he was cheating on me with his old girlfriend. I broke up with him and immediately he went out and got married not with the girlfriend he was cheating on me with but someone new. After he got married, he began calling me and wanting to just get together and talk. I kept telling him to stop calling me, but he didn't. He had been calling me for about a year and a half after he was married, the last time he called I told him if he called again I would call his wife and speak to her. Well, he called again and I did just that I called his wife and you know I never heard from him again. His sin found him out! I don't know what happened to his marriage, but I am sure his new wife was very unhappy with him.
