Quote From: mrsbteacherThere are many "positives" about public schools that have been missed in these postings and therefore missed by those supporting home or un-schooling. As parents we are so used to seeing our children through loving eyes that we can miss concerns skilled educators can see primarily because they have seen so many other children. I taught for 30 years and also raised two children. It was easy for me to see children's learning problems that parents missed. I could spot those with language delays or those with handedness issues; those with attention deficits or those with discipline problems; those that could read like the wind yet couldn't comprehend; those who had perception problems or socializing issues. The lists go on and on. But in addition to recognizing problems, educators also know what to do about them or where to go for help.
Many voices on this website have mentioned chosing curriculum for their children, yet none have mentioned studying teaching methods, brain research, diagnosing learning disorders, studying cognitive development, issues of administering or interpreting tests, choosing tests that measure what we want to learn about a student. Granted, there are some lemons out there in the public teaching field, but there are also lemons in the home and un-scholling arenas. Parents need to visit public schools throughout their communities to see the positive changes that have been made in education since they were in school. Educators are much more aware of special needs and are mandated to adjust to them. Educators and parents are a team in support of children. May I also suggest that parents log on to their state's department of education website to see what is cooking in public education.
(And speaking of websites, I caution everyone who uses the Internet for research: just because it's there doesn't mean it's accurate or valid. Many of my students were surprised to find that out while doing research projects)
Our world is changing and violence appears in places no one ever thought possible: post offices, fast food establishments, churches, busses, airplanes and yes, schools. I was lucky to work in a district that practiced safety measures - earthquake safety, intruder safety and lock down procedures, parent notification in emergencies, child protective mandates. We were trained to handle these things, yet I wonder whether fast food employess or church personnel or other public entities have the same practices. I say this because there were posted concerns about safety in schools. Inquire about methods used in your community's schools so you can comment based on information rather than fear.
It is clear that each writer wants what is best for his/her child. Don't ignore public schools just because you had a bad experience in yours. We all have had bad school experiences, but have also had bad salespeople and friend and family experiences. We have also all had public school teachers who inspired and guided us. What's that expression: "One bad apple doesn't spoil the bunch?" (or something like that!)
Thanks for reading my thoughts!
I just felt compelled to respond to you and let you know what a beautiful, insightful and intelligent post this was! YEAH for you! I, too, feel the same way but couldn't seem to express as well as you have here. My two children (4 and 8) both wear glasses which the public school system caught and I did not. Everything you mention is true and is overlooked (conveniently) by most homeschoolers/unschoolers. I am grateful that we live in an area that does care, does have resources and does have qualified, caring teachers like yourself who are serious about our youth. Kudos to you and all those like you who make this world truly go around! My hat has always been and will always be off to those with a calling to teach! I respect you, admire you and will support you and all you do- not only for my kids but for those who don't appreciate or don't realize how valuable you are. A lot of parents want to believe (myself included) that their children are perfect in all they do and a lot of times don't want to hear negative about behavior or social aspects. To ignore these things by pulling them out of the school is (in my opinion) only furthering the problem. I think too few parents are aware of not only your training but also of what is available to them through the school system. Again, hats off to you!