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July 21, 2008, 6:54 pm PDT
 Quote From: iwonttell Me and my husband have been married for 4 years and this is the 1st time i have ever cheated on him ( and last)! I guess I was hurt by finding out that he cheated on me shortly after being married and a year and a half before my cheating situation. He kept throwing it in my face and i was fed up with it. Not wanting to leave i did what i did and i regret it. I thought it would make me feel better but only made me feel worst. We have been tested again and it was negative. I dont beleive he has cheated again and i know i am definately not. I do ask the lord for his forgiveness every day and every night. I thank you for responding to my message and i will bless you and your husband in my prayers! My Dear Sister~
Do all that you know to do to affair proof your marriage. If you believe in the power of prayer in the name of Jesus Christ then I suggest you receive the forgiveness for your infidelity and kick the dust off your feet and move forward. Forgiving your mate for his indiscretions will be one of the most Godly things that you could ever do. Never bring it up again. Let it go and ask God to give you wisdom on how to keep the flame burning in your garden. Read countless books like The Five Languages of Love, The Purpose and Power of Marriage and His Needs Her Needs. There is a wealth of knowledge out there that will take you to a whole new level in your marital relationship not to mention it will increase your intimacy with God as well. Know this for sure, marriage is a sacred covenant established by the Most High God. Your temple was created by Him and for Him. What you do with your body will either bring Him Glory or disgrace. You will have to give an account for what you do in this body. Thirty seconds of passion is not worth the pain and possible death sentence. HIV, Herpes, Syphilis or any STD is not and never will be sexy. Think about what you are thinking about before you take a dangerous leap again. Ask God to give you the strength to say no. Do all you can to make your grass green in your garden and stop thinking the grass is greener on the other side. Trust me you will only find thorns and thistles not to mention dry brown grass when you cross over the fence again with great expectations. Do something different and say no because you are worth it and the God you claim you worship will be pleased. Bless your mate and stop settling for a quick dangerous roll in the hay. Blessings, Sincerely, Luvisachoice
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