Quote From: rockpagesFor lisam916.
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Yes, he was a loser, but it was all resulted in life lessons that have allowed me to be finally happy. I shouldn't have given him all the chances I did, but I was beaten down, emotionally, verbally, and I was exhausted. I let him slide because I was afraid of divorce, being alone, being unloved, unvalued. Not that I had those things from him, but you can convince yourself of almost any rationalization if you're afraid enough.
But I'm at peace now. I know how to be happy. I know how to value myself. I'm worth soooo much more than he led me to believe all those years. And in the obverse, he lives with his Mom, can't get a job, or an apartment, has warrants out in several states, and has lost all the sports things that he felt were worth lying, cheating, and stealing for. Ka? Karma? Revenge? Don't know. It seems fitting however.
Engaged to my 5th grade sweetheart and lifelong friend, own my own business -- I still don't have children, my largest regret and bitterest pain, but may adopt, and in the meantime I have the 4 footed kind. :)
Cheers!
kim
Kim,
You're a riot! Great web site BTW & what a great warning. I really went there because I wanted to be able to see a better pic of you because I wasn't sure if I was seeing you well enough in this picture here. I did get a glimpse of you over there & so now I can say with certainty that you look SO much better now. What ever you've done you have taken years off yourself from those original pictures on Dr.Phil.
Now with all that said I have to just tell you that I really did get a hoot out of your web site & the revenge you've gotten but you know just enjoying & living your life & it being as great as it is is revenge for your ex. It's true what Dr. Phil said & while you're web site is great I hope at some point you can put this behind you because you don't want to let it turn to a bitterness that will eat at you & make you ill.
Well once again a big thumbs up to you honey & on behalf of all the women who googled him & found out the truth etc. let me say "thanks for the warning & sparing them the heart ach".
