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December 3, 2006, 9:47 am PST

12/08 Out-of-Control Husbands

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Its  so sad   to see drugs  mess up a family and for  a man to cheat on his wife  is  wrong and a sin.    Its a sin for a man to beat up his wife or girlfriend!   After a man  does any of these things you can never trust them again.   A woman  don't need to stay with a man thats on drugs, cheats, or beat  them up!    A  person in a problem like any of these  need to  pray for the other person doing this stuff and  hope they will get help.   At the same time stay away from that  person!                

People can change & do when they choose to. But it has to be the offender's choice or it will never take. Even when it is their choice, it's a hard path. I am still having a hard time trusting my husband after all of his lies even though he's becoming everything I've ever needed.

 

I certainly believe there comes a point when it can be too much & there just isn't any energy left for yet another "second chance". I thought I was there last summer. Thankfully, I wasn't. We are doing good right now. He's being patient with me & the fact that I don't trust him yet. He's also coming to grips with why I don't trust him yet.

 
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December 4, 2006, 2:09 am PST

out of control husbands

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Its  so sad   to see drugs  mess up a family and for  a man to cheat on his wife  is  wrong and a sin.    Its a sin for a man to beat up his wife or girlfriend!   After a man  does any of these things you can never trust them again.   A woman  don't need to stay with a man thats on drugs, cheats, or beat  them up!    A  person in a problem like any of these  need to  pray for the other person doing this stuff and  hope they will get help.   At the same time stay away from that  person!                
  WHEN   A   PERSON   HAS   A   DRUG   OR   ALCHOL   ADDICTION  THAT   IS   THEIR   PRIMARY   RELATIONSHIP.  THEY   ALSO   TRY   TO   CONTROL   THOSE   AROUN D   THEM  AS   THEY   CAN   NOT   CONTROL   THEIR  ADDICTION.  YES,   IT  I S   SAD   FOR   ALL  INVOLVED,  HOWEVER   THE   REAL   VICTIM   IS  THE   PARTNER   AND   CHILDREN   OF   THE   [ADDICTED].   GOD   HELP   THEM  ALL.   AL-ANON   IS   A   GREAT   PLACE   TO  START.
 
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December 8, 2006, 7:56 am PST

12/08 Out-of-Control Husbands

Quote From: jesusislord

Its  so sad   to see drugs  mess up a family and for  a man to cheat on his wife  is  wrong and a sin.    Its a sin for a man to beat up his wife or girlfriend!   After a man  does any of these things you can never trust them again.   A woman  don't need to stay with a man thats on drugs, cheats, or beat  them up!    A  person in a problem like any of these  need to  pray for the other person doing this stuff and  hope they will get help.   At the same time stay away from that  person!                
People can and do change.........and we should applaud those who take the HUGE step to do so, and those who are strong enough to stand by them, love them, believe in them. Without Gretchen, who knows where Danny might be now? She is his angel!!   :)
 


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