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September 13, 2005, 11:16 am PDT
Thanks for the insight
Quote From: ritehere I think you need to analyze your fears, even get some counseling on this if you can't figure out what's wrong. Obviously, you know your fiance pretty well, nobody can accuse you of jumping into something rashly. So, there must be something about marriage itself that has you worried. Do your parents have a good relationship, or do you feel your examples have been lacking? Do you feel that marriage will limit you, or make you change in any way? These are questions you should be asking yourself. Often the one who conducts the ceremony will require that the couple counse with him or her. They like to be assured that you two are compatible, and stand a good chance of being successful in your partnership. You could have a private one on one with the leader of your church, or some other counselor, to talk out your fears, before going through it with your fiance. Thank you for you thoughts. I think it might be my parents. They used to get along really well, but anymore they fight quite often. It really upsets me when they do this. When I was growing up, I really thought they were the "perfect" couple, but not so much anymore. I think you may be right here, maybe it's they're example of how they are now that freaks me out subconsciously. Again, thank you.
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