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December 8, 2006, 6:20 am PST
Run, Don't Walk
Quote From: mzjonesI know it is not right for a man to hit on a female. I am engaged to a man that I have been with for many years. Just in the last 2 years he has become a man that I don't always know anymore. He does not beat on me, but sometimes he will smack me very hard and call me names. I have told him those names hurt more than the hits do, because they really do. He is currently in jail because I have put him there, even though we still talk, I know he can only be the person who can change himself. I am getting counseling and I pray that GOD will help me make the right choices that I need to do. But it is so hard to walk away because I love him so much and I know there is a good person inside there. I am just always confused and I know I am not the only person out there that is going through this and I know there are people out there that know how I feel and have made their choices wether they be right or wrong.
May GOD grace pertect anyone and everyone at all times. Please, please do not marry this man. You say he doesn't "beat on you", and then finish the sentence saying he "smacks you around very hard". He is abusing you, and there is no other nice way to say it. Please don't set yourself up for a lifetime of hell. Go to your family, go to your church, go to a friend, or get out the phone book and call the mental agency in your area if you have no one else, but PLEASE don't marry this man. You are so brave to have him put in jail for what he has done to you. Keep your head up high and get OUT of this relationship. You deserve better. You may love him, but he doesn't know the meaning of the word love. Love to him means control, and please don't let him continue to control you. There are people out there who will help you move on with your life. You sound like much too intelligent of person to set yourself up for a lifetime of heartbreak. You are in my prayers and my thoughts.
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