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December 5, 2006, 8:46 am PST

11/24 Great School Debate

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Can the 10 yr old read and write or are you saying he's been "unschooled"? 

 

Are you saying unschoolers are  typically  unable to read at write at 10 years? Even though I've been watching this board the past week I honestly don't know much at all about the whole unschool process. I'm sure I could go back through the 3,000 posts and find some great info but.....;-) 

Well....

A brief recap about what unschooling is for us, and what it isn't.  It isn't "unparenting or neglect", it IS nurturing and guiding your children through developmentally appropriate stages in their learning.  Our children know how to read, including our younger two, who have never attended public school, because they wanted to know how to read, just like I do... (they've also been read to since they were in the womb ;))

The original poster's (The concerned grandparent whose children were living in a truck and had to be put in foster homes) concern to me didn't really seem to have much to do with appropriate school method, (IMO).  From the sounds of things, his/her grandchildren could have been taking dance lessons from Fred and Ginger themselves and wouldn't have succeeded given their poor home life and unsettlement and having nobody to count on. 

Once the kids have some stability and solid ground to walk on, they can be public schooled, homeschooled, private schooled, unschooled, taught by tapdancing monkeys or whatever as long as they're in a situation they can thrive in!


 
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December 5, 2006, 9:54 am PST

Unschoolers Reading and Writing

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Can the 10 yr old read and write or are you saying he's been "unschooled"? 

 

Are you saying unschoolers are  typically  unable to read at write at 10 years? Even though I've been watching this board the past week I honestly don't know much at all about the whole unschool process. I'm sure I could go back through the 3,000 posts and find some great info but.....;-) 

Some unschoolers can read and write at age 10 and some can't. The vast majority of unschoolers I've known are reading and writing by then, but I've known a few that didn't read until 11 or 12. One of my kids could read before age 3, and the other was 8 before starting. I know one 13 year old who is just now a beginning reader. I also have a dear friend whose daughter didn't read until she was 14. That was some years ago - she's mostly grown up now.

Typically though, the kids that wait until they are older learn very quickly, and a few months after they become readers, you'd never be able to tell they didn't read at 5 or 6.
 
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December 5, 2006, 12:48 pm PST

11/24 Great School Debate

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Can the 10 yr old read and write or are you saying he's been "unschooled"? 

 

Are you saying unschoolers are  typically  unable to read at write at 10 years? Even though I've been watching this board the past week I honestly don't know much at all about the whole unschool process. I'm sure I could go back through the 3,000 posts and find some great info but.....;-) 

Oh no!  I understand how unschooled kids learn...I've seen it firsthand.  We practice some unschooling-style learning in our own home but we are more classical than unschooling.  We use lots of books and have rules & discipline.

 

I was not clear on weather or not the kids are educated at all or if they are just behind.  If a child has not learned to read, I know of a great curriculum.  It is called "Spell to Write and Read".  It is great for any child or adult who's behind in reading.  It works for ALL learning styles.  Not a lot of curriculum can make that claim.

 


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