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December 7, 2006, 12:18 am PST

Teaching Wasn't For Me Either

Quote From: pampye

I am soooo glad you are no longer teaching!  I have been a Detroit Public School teacher for 19 years. Yes, sometimes it is difficult and frustrating. But because so many of the students are so needy I know my job is extremely important, and it is very rewarding to me. 

 

But, honestly, it isn't just a job.  It's a calling. And everyone is not up to the challenge.  Sometimes you have to fight the parents and the administrators to give the children what you know they need. And many times you're out there on your own, feeling like you have no support from anyone.

 

What you have to do is not feel like a victim; enlist the support of anyone who will support you, and keep pressing forward. Accept all successes, from the smallest to the greatest, and let the children know that you expect success from them. When you start to beleive you're a victim, you stop expecting success, and you set up the students for failure.

 

Just because a person has teaching credentials does not mean they need to teach children.

 

 

 What a true statement in your post "Just because a person has teaching credentials does not mean they need to teach children." 

It's true; teaching has to be a calling.  I thought I was called; until my student teaching semester.  Only then did I realize what a mistake I had made.  If only I had spent more time in a teaching setting prior to selecting my college major!!  I went back to college as an adult.  I had home schooled my children; and wanted to make a difference with other children via teaching.  Initially, I was so excited about "teaching" only to realize that it was not the "noble calling" I had envisioned. (Needless to say, lol, the students I encountered were not as interested in learning as my own children were when I home schooled them, nor were they as cooperative as the youth I taught when I volunteered in our church, youth group or sunday school setting.) I spent two years trying to deal with the stress, until I realized I didn't have the ability to deal with disrespectful students and parents, etc. etc..  My second year teaching, I spent  in a Catholic school; after my first year was teaching in a public school.  I thought the private school setting would provide a more structured and peaceful environment!!  Wrong!!  An interesting note; my daughter is in college, and after her own soul searching, she chose elementary education.  After two years of teaching at the Pre-school level, while attending college, she has decided that teaching is not for her either. She is entering her student teaching semester, and has now decided to attend Law School; she took her LSAT recently.  She found out because of her own experiences that she wants to do something else; the stress of the teaching, the lack of respect, etc. are too much.  This is a very talented, loving, capable young woman; professional and intelligent.  I am very glad that she is going straight to graduate school. God Bless the good teachers in the world.  My heart goes out to you.  It seems like a thankless job; I am glad there are capable and strong teachers out there.  I  didn't have the strength to carry on with the profession.  I happily chose to further my education and chose a different profession; I am glad I was able to find another career which makes me feel good about going to work every day.

 


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