Quote From: chazitha Ok So I have been with my fiancee a total of three years. We both love each other and usually things flow smooth. I know we are meant to be together.
Unfortunately his best friend and his mother don't think so. She has said he isn't allowed to get married until after college- she is paying for his education.
His best friend- who I will be meeting for the first time in about two weeks- confessed her love to him last December, regardless of him being in a relationship with me. He couldn't understand why I didn't take it well?!?! He even felt guilty for telling her we were engaged, he was upset about it. He didn't realise until I told him how hurt that made me.
I know I shouldn't be jealous and I know we are meant to be but does it always have to be so complicated?!?!?!?
dear, YOU should be your fiancee´s best friend :) i have never really seen a guy and a girl being able to have a good friendship -sooner or later one or the other starts to have romantic feelings and then the whole idea of friendship becomes absurd:~ you have every right to be jealous if your fiancee is having close friendships with any other female than you :) you have to make him to choose, either you or her. that is what i would do. husband and wife must naturally be best friends with each other and not with other people of the opposite sex.
it doesnt sound good to me that he hasnt introduced you to that girl earlier -if he has nothing to hide, he hides nothing! YOU are his partner, he loses nothing by staying away from other women:)
and about his mother, your fiancee can either make his own decision or you two can wait a few years. if it is true love, it will survive :)
