Quote From: washappyI am in the same boat with you. I love my husband and we have had a great marriage for over eight years. He has always been very sexual, had a bit higher sex drive than myself and I have been okay with having porn in the house (movies and magazines). He can relieve himself when I am not around and I enjoy watching movies with him, we like to fantasize together etc. But now he has developed this OBSESSION with a lingerie model; tried to contact her per phone, attends web cam sessions, recorded her a CD with some songs I thought were special to US and even bought her lingerie. All this while I was gone for nine days to visit my family. I feel cheated, for sure, but I also feel that I've been allowing this to happen by participating in above activities with him (which really have made our sex life interesting and fun!). He has been watching this particular model since '98.. I know that he loves me very much and I also know that I have to draw a line, which I have. He has promised to stop but hasn't.. I need some advice, sisters!
WOW!! I'm not really sure what to say. I think that he has stepped WAY over the line!! It blows my mind that he did that behind your back! I would suggest that you talk him into seeing a therapist. Because, just saying that he'll stop-as you are aware of-doesn't mean that he will. If you think this is an 'obsession' I would just nip it in the bud so to speak.....it's only going to get worse. I'll keep you in my prayers, and good luck!! Stay strong!!!
Jenn
