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December 8, 2006, 5:44 pm PST
12/04 Heroin Twins: The Intervention, Part 3
Quote From: gwarrior6 The father through legal adoption should have told his wife that he had a responsibility. You don't just dump a kid b/c they have problems. You talk to them, work it out, get them help, spend time with them. He didn't even have to take them into his house, just spend time with them and be there for them. That would have helped a lot.
Some kind of visitation schedule should have been arranged thru the court with some other relative (not the mom) having sole custody. That way the "dad" could be in their lives without the "danger" of them being around the baby.
I guess if you knock up some other chick, everyone else has to suffer. Maybe he did not walk out on them but was pushed out by the mother and not allowed to help. We did not hear the entire story of the interpersonal relationship with the mother or the kids. They did have a visitation schedule and he tried to be in contact with the girls but was not given the total truth of what was actually going on. I find it offensive you attribute the only reason for the problems was because he "knocked up some other chick"--it was his wife not some chick off the street. At least have some respect for the people involved.
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