You hit on a very good point. I notice that since my husband uses porn a lot, even when we were having sex, the amount of time we actually did it was not very long. 15 minutes or so. Also he was not into foreplay at all which I found very disturbing since he can watch porn for a hour and do it a few times, look for a while, do it again, but when he was with me, no foreplay, and a quickie sort of. Of course he thought it was amazing that I was able to achieve an orgasm so fast which to him meant I was done.....oh well. Yep. Porn didn't dement his mind, nope, not at all!
Being the understanding person I am, I just thought he was squirmish and not experienced so I accepted his lack of say, interest. But what it truly seems now, looking back in hindsight, he likes porn better then real sex, but wants real sex once in a while just to keep the feeling fresh in his mind, and maybe to make him think he is satisfying me and me and being a good husband.
It is really sad that so many men fall victim to the porn world and dont' understand why their sex lives are dwindling to a mere trickle. And it is equally as sad that women are now not only dealing with pressures from working very hard during the day, obtaining careers and degrees, raising families, and they can't even come home and expect a good romp in the hay! Our mindset is so set to quick release it just doesn't seem anyone really wants to take the time to get to know someone intimately, be intimate with them and enjoy the beauty and wonderfulness of the human relationship.
Hope your rest was peaceful. Kimi
