First of all, I was mad at him b/c he didn't make an adequate effort to clean up his mess, regardless of whether or not he was "pushed" out. He could have been a lot more diligent in facilitating that interaction.
SECOND, I never said that he was the ONLY reason these girls did what they did. I was expressing anger that HE himself didn't seem all that accountable. I never said I didn't respect anyone involved.
Third, Renee was partly responsible for shutting out the twins. I realize that having a bad influence around her kid was a sole reason for that, but severing ties completely when she knew they needed a father figure was cruel. She seemed really icy about the whole thing.
And Fourth, he seemed to jump from one mess to another with little regard for what he leaves behind.
SO... you really shouldn't be offended, b/c i'm a girl (chick, whatever ) too, and should only be offended if you were actually involved, and MY money says you weren't.
