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December 10, 2006, 7:23 am PST

12/11 Dr. Phil and Robin’s Christmas Show!

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 I don't know what it is. I am not depressed, but I don't get the big deal with Christmas.  I don't even want to see this show, I don't want a tree or anything.  I've heard other people who used to love Christmas like me say the same thing.  Anyone else out there going through this?  Sure, I can't really afford much anyway, but I've always really tried hard every Christmas to make a big deal out of it.  I wouldn't feel guilty about this new outlook I am having, except that I have a five year old son.  I don't want him to grow up thinking he's missing out on the fun.  Am I crazy?  I am glad Dr. Phil is using this show to help people and not just show off a bunch of expensive junk.  Although I am sure there will be lots of that too.  Anyone else out there with me?
I have a six year old grandson and his mom has never really liked Christmas.  For his sake I buy a tree and make it a festive season.  Please do something with your five year old or he will feel left out.  Who knows, making him happy might even cheer you up.  Don't worry about the commercialism.  A couple of little gifts will make him happy.  Take him out to see the lights.  Wait until Christmas eve when you can get a tree cheap and put a few lights on it.  Do it for your son.  It is only a couple of weeks a year.  All the hype makes you think everyone is having a wonderful time, but you can keep it simple and still be happy with your son.  All the best to you and your son.
 
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December 11, 2006, 2:39 pm PST

I agree w you

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 I don't know what it is. I am not depressed, but I don't get the big deal with Christmas.  I don't even want to see this show, I don't want a tree or anything.  I've heard other people who used to love Christmas like me say the same thing.  Anyone else out there going through this?  Sure, I can't really afford much anyway, but I've always really tried hard every Christmas to make a big deal out of it.  I wouldn't feel guilty about this new outlook I am having, except that I have a five year old son.  I don't want him to grow up thinking he's missing out on the fun.  Am I crazy?  I am glad Dr. Phil is using this show to help people and not just show off a bunch of expensive junk.  Although I am sure there will be lots of that too.  Anyone else out there with me?

 

I think its all the stress it brings that just seems useless.  It's just for one day, and after that its over-hope that helps?  Youre NOT crazy, believe me.    You could do like a smaller, more intimate Christmas, so that your son gets the experience, but on a smaller scale.  Or say that the elves are on strike this year, so Santa can't do as much...

 
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December 11, 2006, 7:11 pm PST

after reading your post i serched and i ran across this hope it helps you .

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 I don't know what it is. I am not depressed, but I don't get the big deal with Christmas.  I don't even want to see this show, I don't want a tree or anything.  I've heard other people who used to love Christmas like me say the same thing.  Anyone else out there going through this?  Sure, I can't really afford much anyway, but I've always really tried hard every Christmas to make a big deal out of it.  I wouldn't feel guilty about this new outlook I am having, except that I have a five year old son.  I don't want him to grow up thinking he's missing out on the fun.  Am I crazy?  I am glad Dr. Phil is using this show to help people and not just show off a bunch of expensive junk.  Although I am sure there will be lots of that too.  Anyone else out there with me?

What do we say when someone is down about Christmas? Don’t we call them a Scrooge or a Grinch?

 

Dr. Seuss has the Grinch as an altogether miserable fellow.

It could be his head wasn’t screwed on just right.

It could be, perhaps, that his shoes were too tight.

But I think that the most likely reason of all

May have been that his heart was two sizes too small.

 

 

You have heard the saying “Misery loves company”? Well the Grinch doesn’t even have company except for his dog Max. The Gospels say that we should rejoice with other’s happiness, we should assist those in need and we should support people in their sorrow. We have to ask ourselves if at times we don’t follow the Grinch path instead of the one that the Gospel lays out. If we can’t win, we don’t want anyone to win. If we can’t have what we want, we choose nothing at all and very rarely let others have what we really desire.

 

Christmas is a time to tune into God. In tuning into God we can confront our feelings, emotions, and our actions to know what our motives are. We can with God’s help change our ways. In scripture we come across many people that have changed their lives. In James Kemp’s book “The Gospel According to Dr. Seuss”, he parallels Zacchaeus with the Grinch. Zacchaeus needed someone to love him. Jesus was just the person but no one around really agreed at the time that Jesus asked him to come down from the tree. If we are to follow Jesus we have to learn to recognize and to love people like the Grinch who are miserable and difficult to love because they are in so much pain.

 

The Grinch thought he took everything away from the Whos down in Whoville. He took their food, their presents, their decorations but the Grinch is the one changed by this experience.

And what happened them…

Well in Whoville they say

That the Grinch’s small heart

Grew three sizes that day!

 

Christmas is about the change of heart. Only Jesus can do that. Everyone knows a Grinch. Not everyone knows Jesus Christ in their heart and not just their head. Everyone who know Jesus as Lord and Savior can reach out by faith. You may not see a change but you might. Christmas is about making the ordinary extraordinary. We are the ones that need to share the news of Jesus being born and coming to live our lives. That is what will change people and it will change us.

 

The Grinch had it all wrong and so do we sometimes. We have bought into the materialistic lifestyle and find ourselves defined by what we have and own and we think that the more we have the happier and more fulfilled we will be. Money can’t buy happiness but we sure try. We have left our front porch which has caused us to leave community. We as a church are a community and we have something here that we need to share with the world. We pray each time we pray the Lord’s prayer “give us this day our daily bread”. The Grinch even stole the Who’s daily bread but it was the Grinch who listened for crying and wailing that got the surprise – there was the joy in Whoville just as it always had been.

 

“Maybe Christmas “, he thought “doesn’t come from a store.

Maybe Christmas.. perhaps.. means a little bit more!”

 
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December 11, 2006, 8:36 pm PST

That's because so much of it is the wrong deal!

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 I don't know what it is. I am not depressed, but I don't get the big deal with Christmas.  I don't even want to see this show, I don't want a tree or anything.  I've heard other people who used to love Christmas like me say the same thing.  Anyone else out there going through this?  Sure, I can't really afford much anyway, but I've always really tried hard every Christmas to make a big deal out of it.  I wouldn't feel guilty about this new outlook I am having, except that I have a five year old son.  I don't want him to grow up thinking he's missing out on the fun.  Am I crazy?  I am glad Dr. Phil is using this show to help people and not just show off a bunch of expensive junk.  Although I am sure there will be lots of that too.  Anyone else out there with me?

The wrong deal, like so much of the consumer world. I don't think you're crazy at all.

 

 I like to have beautiful things as much as the next person...depending on who the person  is beside me,  and I am always grateful for wonderful presents...neverthless some of my BEST Christmas memories happened far from the frenetic malls and hypedup advertising kind of Christmas.

 

One year I didn't even have money for presents for my out of town daughter and my siblings; so  I volunteered at my church during children's pageants, and had a ball helping kids get into their costumes for the many performances happening that weekend. I really had a blast, and I felt so full and happy. Another time, I opened presents from my darling daughter and my siblings on air in a Christmas Day show  on campus-community radio. I told impromptu stories of memories I had about each of those dearly beloved people....and loved doing it! I felt so full of love and warmth.

 

If we find our own way of doing Christmas, and our own way of being grateful for life, Christmas can mean a whole lot more than what we see on TV and in magazines. So much of what we see is superficial and contrived.

 

I hope  you have a library nearby, so you can take your son there before Christmas...it would be rare for a library not to have Christmas decorations and great activities. Also, most children's departments of libraries have a copy of the awesome picture book, POLAR EXPRESS..and if you're lucky enought to have a VCR and a TV, they'll surely have a video of the movie from a couple of years ago. That movie is a beautiful way to look at Christmas...it's about the magic of believing , not just about presents. My boyfriend's 97 year old mother sent us a Christmas card of The Polar Express the year before she died...the Hallmark  inscription in it said "Though I've grown old, the bell still rings for me - as it does for all who truly believe." It added, MAY YOU ALWAYS BELIEVE IN THE MAGIC OF CHRISTMAS.

 

I wish you and your son a wonderful Christmas, full of love and joy and fun. HOPE, & belief in the world of love. :-)

 

Blessings on your day....

 

 

 


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