Quote From: tray00You bet I have learned to go with the flow and take what life hands me. I had a baby at 15, missed one day of school, went to high school eveyday for the next 2.5 yrs went to college and got a job. Got married, started our own business sold the business a few years later. Moved to another province - I stayed at home for 7 yrs and ran my dayhome. Over the past 7 yrs we have struggled with money, haven't a dayhome isn't a secure income (kids come and go) I have fallen behind in bills and I am not ready to do that again. I want to be a sucessfull person and I think by taking this new job it will get me thier, but I am scared that I will fall behind in bills again until I find my new job after this 6 months is up.
I thank you for your responce, but I don't think I am being negative, I think scared of not having any money.....I dont' have a line of credit or credit cards I can rely on in the mean time.
Thanks.
Life has made you scared and I feel afraid not so much of life per say but afraid, just plain afraid, and not having any money only compounds this fear. In fact I think you are taking your fears to a higher level. Do you really no why you are doing this to yourself or is it because of not having any money?
Falling behind in bills is no fun, however it has made you fearful. You say you want to be a successfull person, but afraid of falling behind in bills - your fear is going to cancel out your success.
I too am behind in bills am and in debt - however - there is a huge difference between us - I am concentrating on creating income and not on the bills. I know that the bills were there yesterday, I know that the bills are here today, and I know that the bills will be there tommorrow, but I also know that if my focus is on creating/getting income - that will take care of the bills.
YOU have got to take care of your fear. Please do yourself that favor.
Rog
