Quote From: baeiouyI said.
I am well aware of people that have had porn their entire life. But if you really think about it, the reason they turned to porn was that something was missing, it could have very well been a person. They just never realized that once they had a partner that they no longer needed the porn.
I agree with you 110% that people need to turn to their partners instead of somewhere else. People are not working on their relationship and seeing what each one needs, sexually, emotionally etc.
I left you an email :)
maybe what was missing in my husband's life was someone.....but by the time I came along he was already addicted. I think in many ways he was lonely for attention (he had a large family but I can't say his parents weren't the best they could be for 6 kids). He had 3 sisters very close in age to him and being surrounded by so many with needs all the same at the same time I am sure was part of the cause. I often think that have a large number of children isn't always the best thing because something has to give. It is no different then having too many in one classroom.
I am sure this new board will not be popular to some on the other one. Support does not mean to me not hearing the other side but means allowing a person to voice without feeling attacked. That has not taken place at the other place in very long time. People need to know they have someone to listen and not always judge them. And in all of that ...guidance to finding the answer can happen. If showing up here only ends up with someone being faced with more blame and attacks....they turn away and get nothing.
I will check my email. I am in the middle of creating a photo collage for my son's friend for christmas so if I don't get back to you right away....that is why.
