Replies to 'How Porn Has Hurt Our Relationship'

is coming with great critism because some believe that all that will happen here is a bunch of people crying with little help going on.

As I have always said......if you have done all that you can to figure out what went wrong and have had no success (and most who end up here have) then maybe it is time you stop poinint at oneself and start looking for new solutions.

It is my belief that many women who end up here and have had little success in ridding their marriage of porn (what seems so simple to you and I but has not been) most are dealing with far more then just a simple porn usage. It is my belief that the reason they encounter the same arguements over and over is because they are dealing with porn becoming much more then just a pasttime. Yes...an addiction.

So now we have this place to figure it all out. And I am glad we have it. THose who want to debate can suffer through the other place. The rest of us....will enjoy having each other to support (and yes sometimes cry together).

is coming with great critism because some believe that all that will happen here is a bunch of people crying with little help going on.

As I have always said......if you have done all that you can to figure out what went wrong and have had no success (and most who end up here have) then maybe it is time you stop poinint at oneself and start looking for new solutions.

It is my belief that many women who end up here and have had little success in ridding their marriage of porn (what seems so simple to you and I but has not been) most are dealing with far more then just a simple porn usage. It is my belief that the reason they encounter the same arguements over and over is because they are dealing with porn becoming much more then just a pasttime. Yes...an addiction.

So now we have this place to figure it all out. And I am glad we have it. THose who want to debate can suffer through the other place. The rest of us....will enjoy having each other to support (and yes sometimes cry together).