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Hey that was a cool message from a cool woman like you!

I asked myself many, many times is there something wrong with me? Do I really know how to handle relationship? My previous one was a distance relationship because she was in New York while Im here in the Middle East. My current one (which is on the verge of breaking-up) is as well a distance relationship because she's in UK.

I should say that it was my fault of not telling her first & foremost that I got a 6 year old kid. My only purpose of not letting her know about it was so crystal clear that she might reject me because of me being a father to a 6 year old kid. I was just waiting for the right time (I told her) for me to be able to spill the beans BUT my trusted friend based in UK as well told her instead of I telling her.

Thats my dilemma now. I courted her for less than a month and i was able to win her heart two days before my holiday last August. 

She admitted during our phone conversation that she was indeed pressured when I asked her that I should be able to know her answer if I win her heart or not before my departure last August 15. She said YES on the 13th.  

My intention was clear of winning her heart. Since our last phone conversation, we talked of her holiday next year on May. It seems to me that BETRAYAL is the issue?

We have a lot of things in common and I thought she was the one that Ive been waiting for. Shes 34 and I dont know which way our relationship is going.

Do you think we still have a chance?

Thanks for your invitation, it's a good idea. I hope of talking to you soon. 

 Thank you.