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October 27, 2007, 9:37 pm PDT
He won't admit he has a problem with porn
Quote From: emelizI agree with everything you have said 100% and you also helped to make me realize a few things, thank you for that.
I've done a lot of reading about porn addictions and it seems about 95% of the time a reason for a mans porn addiction has almost nothing whatsoever to even do with sex.... there seems to always be another reason for it deep down under all the lies and hurt. I've actually talked this over with my husband and he too didn't even realize he reasons for being so addicted. We figured out together his reasons, which helped a lot but it still doesn't take the pain or trust issues away. My husband is indenial, complete denial. I have dealt with this for quite some time and am now getting some counseling. I don't want my marriage to end, but I don't know what else to do. He refuses to talk with me about this problem and basically says that the problem is me.
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