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I have begged him many times to get professional help and he's agreed to it but says he can't do that until we have the money to do so... to me it seems a bit like he just doesn't want to.  He has joined support forums for ex porn addicts per my request, because I wanted him to at least have someone he could talk to seeing as it seems he doesn't want to talk to me about it. I've tried everything possibly to try to get him to talk to me about it more but he feels like he can't come to me for support because of how much he's hurt us. I just don't want him to feel as alone in the situation as I do but he's pushing me and all his friends away now.  He does however, know that I can't keep putting up with the hurt and I made it very clear that if he ever puts the family in a position like this again I have no choice but to do whats best for us and take our daughter and leave. 

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