Quote From: emelizThank you for the recomendation. His main problem is that he thinks watching porn is fine just so long as he doesn't -buy- it... but the more he watches the more he wants and I'm afraid he'll turn to buying it again even though he has enough to support hundreds of addicts. He thinks he doesn't need help so long as he doesn't buy porn.
I was just looking into SAA and I think it would help him if I could get him to join. Thanx.
I have been married for 6 years and for 6 years my husband has looked at porn and for 6 years he tells me its nothing; all guys do it; don't worry its not about you; yet 6 years later I am on the verge of getting a divorce, we haven't had sex in 6 months and I am finding out that even though some guys look at porn, they would prefer not to have to and the reason they do is because they are not getting their visual needs met with the person they are with. They may not be physically having sex with other women, but they are visually more turned on to porn then their women and little by little, admit they are losing their interest in their wives/girlfriends.
Porn use is not a simple matter and it is not to be treated lightly. Your husband is justifying his behavior by saying as long as he does not buy it......if its free then its ok....but if you think about that......so is going out and meeting a stranger that is also sexually promiscious. Two wrongs do not make a right and he is trying to make "free porn" right.
You have a child together and that child deserves to have a mom and a dad but this child does not need to have a mom that is depressed and a dad that is a sexual addict.
