We do not have many physical limitations at our house, and I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through...your lives changed in a terrible instant.
Here are some things that we enjoy doing as a family. I play guitar, and the family sings along. We read books together, taking turns reading aloud...somebody could help your husband turn the pages when it is his turn to read. We play board games. We love Scrabble, Life, Monopoly, and doing the quiz cards from Trivial Persuit (never have figured out how to work the board). There is also chess and checkers...somebody could move the pieces for your husband...they would both have to learn the names of the squares and pieces to make it easier for him to direct the moves of the pieces. We also play 20 questions and enjoy listening to music on the CD player. We are striving for daily Bible study, but, to be honest, we are a bit lax on that...homework seems to get in the way.
I can understand the depression...such a sudden change, not being able to move...it must be awful to have to live with.
Can you take your husband outside in his wheelchair?...a nice walk might do you all some good. If you have a way to transport him, perhaps a short scenic drive might be enjoyable...anything to get out of the house for awhile.
Well, I hope this helps...Becky
