Quote From: catluv1Just wanted to say hi before signing off. I'm only seeing this post of yours so I don't know your full story-or at least I don't think so. From what I can see, you have a lot of the usual concerns.
I know what you mean about expecting a lot from your kids. Sometimes, I forget they're little! I probably should be doing more things with them like crafts, playing games. I don't pay enough attention to that stuff. I know I should because they deserve it and because I want them to have fond memories when they grow up. I mean we do have close relationships but I'm always feeling as though I expect a lot from them but at the same time, I should be giving just a little bit more. I think most parents feel that way. Or at least a lot of them.
As for continuing to go on for their sake-hey, whatever it takes to get you through things. When I've been at my lowest, I held onto that and it really helped me through. Fortunately, I stuck it out because while I still have my lows (though it seems like I have less of them), my life has gotten better.
Well, I didn't mean to ramble and for all I know, I could be way off with what you were actually talking about.
I just wanted you to know that you're still on my 'hello' list! lol
Have a good night-or day
:) Suzanne
Suzanne, thanks for responding. It really helps to lift my spirits. I know, logically, that I'm not alone in my parental feelings, but emotionally it can be a bit tough. You know how it is. No-one knows what I'm going through. My kids are the only difficult ones in the entire world, everyone else's kids are perfect angels all the time(lolz.) They never put a foot wrong, while mine are horrible to be around. (I guess that's what most parents think when they see someone else's children.)
I can't stay. My youngest has just woken up from his afternoon sleep and needs attention. Bye for now.
Ruthieg
