Quote From: teziscoolmy sister did the worst betrayal thing she could ever do.
She likes playing the role "poor me" or "look at me" at school
So this year she told EVERYONE at school that i
a. pull my hair out because i have an OCD
b. I am a cutter
c. I have cancer
d. I am taking Zoloft for depression
ALL of those were supposed to stay a secret. My mom and I sat down with her and told her to NOT TELL ANYONE.
I found out she told everyone from the BIGGEST gossipper in our school.
I confronted her about it and when she admitted to it I decked her in the face.
I will never forgive her for it and now everyone at school thinks im a Freak.
-life sucks Theresa
Girl, I know you think life sucks, but it will get better. Do you KNOW how many kids at your school that have some of the same issues that you have? I am betting there are many. When I was in school I knew 3 people who pulled out their hair; 2 cutters and about 1/2 dozen with eating disorders. Ten with drug and alcohol problems and while I don't remember anyone on depression meds, there were some that should have been.
The ones who think you are a "freak"? Don't worry about them, it wouldn't matter if you didn't have anything going on at all, they'd still find something to pick on. It's just the way they see the world.
There are the others who are tooo worried someone will find out their "freakish" secrets so they keep their mouths shut and their heads down while those run their mouths about other people.
As for your sister; You can be angry with her. She did something wrong that hurt you. But eventually, for you, not for her necessarily; you need to forgive her. AND it's entirely possible she is having some sort of problems that she may need counceling for; revealing hurtful things about ones family after having it explained to her why she shouldn't ; is a seriously aggressive and angry thing to do.
Also...tell your mother what she did so that your Mom can get to the bottom of this behavior. Your sister is damaging herself when she destroys her relationships with her family.
It hurts, my own brother told everyone on the playground (after we'd had an argument) that I still sucked my thumb( I was in 4th grade). WOW! I thought my life was over. Guess what? I actually laugh about it now. *he could really be a jerk sometimes though*
I forgave my brother and love him lots now that we're grown up.
Have you talked to your school councelor about what happened,? You'd be surprised at how helpful they can be in these situations! Good luck, and quick healing.
