hi, everyone, new to the board. i will try to get this right. i have been married for 7 years and been with my husband 11 years and have a 5 year old daughter. when i met my husband he used to go to strip bars with his friends and watch porn all the time, but after we moved in together he basically stopped going out to the strip clubs or would ask my permission and would respect it if i said no. but my husband has a unbelievable collection of porn tapes i would say about 500 or so and he has it on the computer too. he can not sit down at a computer with out looking at it. but i am having great difficulty with the mastubation part. he does it all the time, at night, when i am at work, then i catch him. I have asked him why, and said he is sorry it hurts me but it should not. it hurts me and belittles me to no point. he says he can't stop and i should not be upset. but i can't do this any more. i am not against porn, but i do belive if a man is going to watch it, it should be with his wife and sex between the both of us is great on both ends he says. but he also says he is very sexually driven and if he is horny he should be able to pleasure himself anytime. i need some advice, please help? ready to wash my hands of this awfull cheating habit. am i worng should i be more understandable?
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