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September 14, 2005, 8:48 am PDT

Cut him some slack,

Quote From: sibirian81

Hi! 

  

I woke up this morning with a horrible pain in my stommach, that continued for quite a while. My husband was already up getting ready for school and seemed quite concerend about me to, since I couldn't even walk streight from all the pain. I tried to reach my Dr., but it was to early in the morning. My husband asked me, if there is anything he could do for me, I said there is nothing he can do, so he went to take a shower. After a while, I started hearing some noises from the shower, I could tell that he was pleasuring himself... I was vert shocked and hurt, and confronted him right away. How could he think about his own pleasure while I was being so miserable??? I mean, I don't mind what he was doing, but am I the only one thinking that the timing was just absolutely sick?!  

 Men are "washed" with testosterone about 7 times a day, women are "washed" with estrogen about 7 times a month. Mind you, the intensity is the same, but men are "subjected" to it much more often. His little shower escapade is probably not much more than a habit, and it never even crossed his mind to think that he might seem insensitive to you.
Of course, I don't know how intense your pain was but if you weren't in the car heading to the hospital, he might have thought it wasn't too serious. It's hard to judge the pain of others.
 


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