Quote From: skwirl1. I don't think it's a turn-off, I just think that people think that there are more traditional ways to find your soul-mate. But who cares what anyone else thinks? I say do what you gotta do to get what you want. I admire your creativity, and your ability to pursue what you want even if it means stepping out of the norm. It definitely beats just giving up, like so many others already have. You are bound and determined to get what you want no matter what anyone else says, and that is GREAT!!! It's only when you give up that you have no hope of getting what you want.
2. I don't know you, so I couldn't tell you what kind of vibe you are sending out, but at least you are aware that it is a possibility and can examine yourself more closely in social situations to see if that might be the case.
3. I might be weird, but I am not attracted to guys in suits and the flashy type. I like a man in blue jeans and t-shirt, and dirt under the fingernails doesn't bother me one little bit!
4. I read something on the internet about that, has something to do with chemistry, very interesting article. Says you exude a certain chemistry, that certain women are attracted to. You should Google it, that's what I did, because I am (WAS) always attracted to the wrong type of guy.
5. Couldn't answer that one! LOL!! Again, I would have to know you. Do you have any really good female friends that you could ask that and get an honest answer? Sometimes friends don't want to hurt your feelings, so they just tell you what you want to hear, but if there is someone really close to you, that knows you and your ways, maybe if you asked seriously enough they would give you an honest answer?
Also wanna thank-you for stopping by this board. I really think once we get more people here, it would be alot of help for both sexes, so just hang here a while and see what happens! Hope you are having a wonderful Christmas! If that's not what you celebrate then I hope you are just having a wonderful day in general! :)
Well... one thing I definitely learned about dating and rationality is, if Star Trek's Mr. Spock was a real guy, he'd absolutely SUCK at trying to meet women! :-P FWIW, I'm giving the gift of life this Christmas... it upset me so in years past to see all those trees going unsold in all the lots, this year I vowed to make a difference. I put some water in a pail, got out my bonsai trimmer, and visited a local lot, and the boss on duty was nice enough to let me take all the cuttings I wanted, for free, from their discarded trees. Got about 2 dozen good cuttings of Noble fir, so I figure at least one of these will have to make it to the rooting stage. Heh, everyone else will be getting their trees from lots, but I'll have my own growing right in the yard. BTW my nextdoor neighbor invited me to drop in on him anytime for a yuletide bash... however, I've been starting to hear raucous roars issuing from his house since about noon, and am afraid of getting sucked into another of his alcoholic celebrations with his brawny buddies... :-( What I need most this Christmas is a pretty, brown-eyed blonde woman in rose-red tights and a red and green skirt, whom I can hug... it wouldn't matter to me if she smokes or not, as long as she could enjoy this delicious ham I'm having for dinner.
